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November 9, 2009
The myths are inherited from generation to generation and the real only thing of them is that they set to doubt the inexperienced parents that's why here there go some of them, the most common so that the new papis do not allow to take because of it to the wonderful world of the confusion.
Example:
Lorar does that the lungs are enlarged. False. Some relation does not exist between the crying of the baby and the natural maturation of this organ.
On having been born, they do not see. False. If they see but at a shorter distance of between 15 and 30 centimeters, that's why the adults instinctively we approach the baby to speak to him.
If it has big feet he will be a tall child. False. The only thing that determines if the child will be high is the genetics, it does not matter how big have the hands and the feet.
To cut the hair of the newborn baby or to peel it will do that this one is stronger. False. The newborn baby loses the whole hair with which he is born, has no sense to cut it before 6 months, the only thing that is achieved is to change the tops that were thinner for those of the root, but I repeat this first hair with which they are born it will get lost.
To learn to walk it must use shoes that hold his feet to him. False. It is better that the baby walks I take off, this strengthens muscles and sinews, the shoes only fulfill the protection function, as fact is good that walk on places where there is grassland or sand.
Good for my part I hope that this information should serve to be able to raise our children without fear of old sayings, which can alter our form of upbringing, the parents do not allow to be influenced by instinct we know how to act. The grandparents can give so much help as obstruct our development as parents.
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November 5, 2009
From two years: There end the stormy nights of the baby who wakes up to suck or to take his feeding bottle every three or four hours but now the insomnia comes in some cases.
There are changes that happen constantly for example there are babies who of more boys felt calmer sleepy and they were not giving problems in the night and from the change of age they begin to give problems at the time of taking them to the bed. There are dads whom in the lottery an anxious child can touch to sleep, the important thing is that they do not sit down alone because every 100 children 95 have night problems.
There are children who need more hours of sleep and others that with a few hours are already satisfied, some children can sleep the whole night of ballad that depends on us if we control his daily routine we will be able to know at what time to put them to bed and when they must do a siesta if the child does it and is his custom.
We know that they are discovering a new world and that these hours of sleep take time from him to explore that's why must use strategies so that the child conceives this moment as I adjoin and that feels accompanied, this is one of the fears to be alone, because they know that you see one that the sleep catches them they will be alone in his bed, therefore like example we can put it to bed with his dolls or plush that will place trust in them and will make them feel accompanied. Another way of placing trust in them is to sit down next to you until they fall asleep and to tell them a story or to sing his favorite song to them, a lit soft light can help and the door of his bedroom to remain opened in the case that his son sleeps only in another room.
It is not advisable to take them to the bed of the parents, only in cases of exception. Let's try to do of this moment a good shared moment that they feel that they go away accompanied and that a part of us takes with them to the bed.
November 5, 2009
The fever not only usually appears when the child is sick, also it can be for being too wrapped up, or being in a place where it is very hot, in ambiences warmed where the boy does not do change with this one between the environmental heat and the corporal one.
But care because the fever is a mechanism of defense that it warns when the child has a complaint. This is the mechanism of defense that has the organism to fight the gérmenes that attack us, there are fevers that they can unleash in a convulsion that's why it is necessary to put attention especially between 6 months and 6 years of life.
Especially when it appears sudden and always rises quickly it is necessary to consult a doctor to know well which is the origin of this one.
That to do when there is fever, it is better to try to uncover them not very sudden so that there is no gross change, and if one is going to medicate to him better to consult the pediatrician not to give them anything that this state could aggravate. After attentive papis are!!!!!!!.
October 30, 2009
It is verified that the babies have memory at young age, is studied by American scientists that from two months from now on the child can keep short-term memories.
Since we verify it the dads it is very easy, if they notice something rare in one they express it, example when the mom does something to herself in the hair they notice you differentiate it even before the father. Also it is possible to notice when we take it to the pediatrician to renew vaccines they remember that the last prick in his reaction can be verified. These scientists and psychologists did tests with more of 300 babies of less than 6 months and verified that it is possible to remember some episodes.
October 21, 2009
When we refer to puzzles for children, we think about activities that in addition to entertaining, they educate. We include in these, crossword puzzles, puzzles, riddles, soups of letters, acrostics, stories, difference games, games of mathematics, figures to do, table games.
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October 18, 2009
Be a good example for his children. Want or not it, you cannot avoid to be an example for his son, be already good or bad.
Try to be a good example. It does not matter to what he devotes himself, does that his son feels proud.
Time happens with him and sobretodas the things teach him values, which in the long run will always accompany him.
If it achieves it, insurance will be a good father.
October 4, 2009
Some specialists think that the ideal age to choose to have a son goes from the thirties to thirty five years of age. One divides of the assumption that the woman at this age combines the good physical state and the proper ripeness of the age.
It is important to point out that the woman a thirties enjoys physical health and also he enjoys psychic ripeness that the ride to an emotional balance which prepares her to take the decision to be a mother. The positive aspect of this age supposes that the maternity acquires a more responsible value.
September 29, 2009
It is typical that during the nights the newborn babies sleep little and give work to his parents. For this reason these think that the interruption of the sleep in the babies will normalize with the time.
Many parents support that spent the first six months of life will guarantee to them the wished night rest of the teeny-weeny ones and, with him it will come for the dads.
The disorders of the sleep it is worrying for the parents because sometimes the babies have happened six months and keep on waking up in half of the night.
Progressively with the age the babies are going to sleep between l2 hours during the night and the rest distributed during the day.
September 29, 2009
The newborn babies have reflexes as the adults, when for example a finger puts itself them in the palm, his hand closes immediately, when one touches him the cheek in a side, his head is going to turn in this direction; if we bring a light over to his eyes and this one is very intense they close automatically the eyes; and this way we can keep on giving examples of the different reflexes that the babies have.
These answers that they give it owes to an immaturity normal of the nervous system and that they are going to be eliminating between the first two months and the first year of life.
September 24, 2009
During all the epochs a grandmother is essential for his grandchildren, because only affection is going to offer us to him but it is going to give them patience and ancient histories.
We know that the grandmothers take his grandchildren seriously but the pedagogic pretensions, especially as for the limits that it is necessary to put to them they are going to be more lax and more flexible than those of the parents.
Inside the order that the grandmother puts, she has the right that is gained for it being of spoiling his grandchildren, simply because it is part of the tradition. And for this reason there is no divorce with the grandchildren.
