The children and the fears

On November 23, 2009

We must be careful to the sobreproteger our children saying “care“ to him to any moment can be completely counter-productive.

A two-year-old boy does not know that the dangers that's why it is surer that he suffers some accident, that we must bear in mind that sometimes for more care that we put in the sound inevitable.
But we must not infect the fear there is a big difference between being cautious and being fearful, a prudence excess is harmful to the psychological development of the child.

There are two ways for this child to whom fears were transmitted to him, he can be a difficult boy who us tends not to pay attention or otherwise a shy super child who cannot develop for proper account and depends on anybody for everything what he tries to do.

The way of finding an average point and of not passing of an end to other is to pay his attention only when it is necessary this way the child will be differentiating and will learning during his conducts which it is well and which not.

We know that the ends are bad neither the over-protection nor the inattention they are good, if we know that the child this one in an age in which it is still defenseless we try to be positives to be able to stimulate them and that they are exercising control if the same.

The frustrations are a part of the life and they serve so that to learn. The fears are only that fears, let's not leave that they dominate us.