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It counts the history … …

January 6, 2010


That long ago, a lot of time three men who now in these times we call “Magi” came to our traditions by means of the gospel of San-Mateo and that it are not known really that had origin in fact a lot of information does not happen on these three men, who according to Mateo were three "magicians" who were still a star who would guide them towards the new King who was born in Bethlehem, as these three men were taking with it gifts for the child who was going to be born it is said that they are “kind kings” who bring gifts for all.
Many years generation has spent this tradition to herself after generation and it is for the children on January 6 one of the days of the year that more they wait anxious and that until this previous night they do not sleep waiting for them to receive his regalitos with many emotion.
To see the caritas of the children waiting for these three magic men called Melchor, Gaspar and Baltazar is a little that it has no price and that like parents it is logical let's treat that his innocence is finished and that the happiness is absolute. That's why this date is so special for all big and small ones, if we take care of these traditions we will be taking care a little more of the innocence that should not of getting lost on having grown to achieve an a little more sensitive and kind world full of the pure love that these three "Magicians" represent when in an example of what there are they take a child that they do not know gifts to receive it to the life.

The mouse Pérez, I console for the loss of the first teeth.

December 31, 2009

In many families still there exists the tradition of using the cuentito of the mouse Pérez for the consolation of the children when his first teeth fall down.
This tradition exists in fact to avoid the possible trauma that leaves the loss of something that for the child is important, it is not known that they found sense in that a mouse takes the teeth and leaves a gift but it is of supposing that it can be the association of the night with the mice which go out of his caves when we all are sleeping to eat. The same way the children do not ask since what they know is that they will receive a gift, for the parents it is always good to bear in mind the cuentito to be prepared for this moment where the child begins to change his teething and is many sensibility for his personal growth.

The teeth in children and babies.

December 30, 2009


The care of the teeth in the children and babies is important, as parents we must bear in mind greatly the care of the teeth of our children and from the pregnancy we must already begin with the prevention, for it we must bear in mind a good feeding in the pregnancy that must contain calcium, phosphorus, proteins, vitamins A, C and D.
If we put attention since we are still children in the care in the milk teeth that have a short duration we can avoid headaches in a future.
If the milk teeth are not well elegant they will inherit to the perms the same illness.
The education of the child for the correct cleanliness of his teeth is the most important and the correct feeding consuming neither tidbits nor many things with sugar is one of the forms, the brushing after every meal is the best thing.
The best way of avoiding mishaps is to be careful from a beginning with the teeth of our children and that they learn to take care of them also.

Advices before adopting

December 29, 2009

For mothers and parents who want to adopt a child or girl be who is we must bear in mind that it is biological or adapted when it comes a child will change his lives, now someone will be small them waiting at home that will depend on you completely.

The children all need very much love for his development and upbringing, it is necessary to give him a lot of attention. The question is: are we prepared?, the principal thing is there appears like couple the desire to be parents, and any decision must be taken between the two.

It is an error to think that this of the adoption is only a step and that it is a kindness act, they must think very well before passing since in a future the child has right to know his real roots and that living in a lie can bring to them many disadvantages, not forget that the child is a being with rights and not an object because he is waiting there for a few parents who should raise it and should want it. Also the knowledge is important that a son is for the whole life and that we owe to the sean which there are his roots and the form in which we conceive it. To choose to be parents this way is one of the steps when we cannot do it of natural form that does not mean that one could not and the adoption is a good option since there exist thousands of children who are hoping to be a part of a family.

That important are the Grandparents in the life of the children.

December 27, 2009

imagesWhen he is born a child in a family changes every day into any aspect, then that important sound these special persons who help with his experience and fondness without waiting more than to be corresponded.
The relation grandson grandfather is always special and different from the one that happens between children and parents, it is so important that the children are in contact with his grandparents if they have them since the knowledge and the difference of age with the parents does that the children feel another type of fondness.
Without a doubt that the papis need the help of these beings that to the moment who are born children at home begin his roll of giving fondness and very good and healthy advices for his grandchildren.
Often it influences the time that the parents have for the attention of the child since nowadays both the father and the mother work the two it is there when the grandparents take an important role in the upbringing and the life of the children, they are always ready to take care of his grandchildren without any problem and do not demand any more that to be corresponded in respect and love. The meeting between grandparents and grandchildren is always very enriching for both parts, it is always possible to keep on learning and the generations change so much that is good that give themselves information exchanges and that respect the wise councils of the grandparents through that of insurance more things lived and different.
The relations in the families become stronger if we can make use of this union between all the parts and for the children it is completely important to feel the union and the support of his grandparents.

The Christmas for the children

December 22, 2009

The traditional holidays are for the children the special moment for that they wait the whole year, the arrival of the gifts there are the whole event, but also it is good for them to transmit the examples of kindness that brought the birth of this child for which we celebrate all the Christians.

The birth of the child Jesus with his messages of peace, kindness and love for the whole humanity they must come in a best possible way to the children so that they know this so beautiful history.

In general the children ask that it is the Christmas that's why we must be prepared like parents to answer with the biggest possible sincerity although we should not be believing.

To remember that it is a moment to share with the family can be very comforting for the child who likes the meetings and who the holiday must be thought about them also, often the biggest think about the dinner the arrangements and do not allow them to take part which is really productive for them.

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A pleasant sleep

December 11, 2009


It is a very difficult knowledge with certainty that the babies dream but if we know that dreaming is a part of the growth. One believes that the sleep of the children in the beginning is simple not only in images but also in facts, and are evolving and becoming more complex as his thought realizes.

The frequent question between the moms and the dads is: and does it have nightmares?
Diverse studies have pointed out that the babies dream of the sensations that his mother transmits to him fundamentally: his voice, his heat, his smell. That's why it is important that the baby does not happen for situations of strong noise, stress that provokes his anxious sleep.

The periodic control in the baby

December 11, 2009


It is important for the baby to realize a periodic control with a doctor pedíatra to know if the child is growing I recover and well.

The control of the weight that some parents usually do every day to the babies for example has no sense to do it because the fact that it increases of weight it does not mean that the child is healthy.

Some specialists think that the weekly control is not even necessary. They support that a child who is satisfied, that eats well and grows and puts on weight normally to simple sight does not need this weekly control to know his exact weight. They think that it is enough to be guided by the common sense to know if his son is healthy.

How to choose the first clothes

December 9, 2009


At the time of choosing the clothes for the newborn baby, the mother must be a practice and think about the serviceability of the baby.

The first thing that the mothers must bear in mind is the textile. The best are those that are transpirables like the linen, the cotton, the thread, the cambric.

That's why mothers have to avoid those synthetic textiles which can provoke allergies and annoyance if they are especially in contact with the skin of the baby, like underwear or sheets.
For it we suggest at the time of choosing the first clothes to choose for the natural textiles that are ideal for the corporal development of the baby

The children and the fears

November 23, 2009

We must be careful to the sobreproteger our children saying “care“ to him to any moment can be completely counter-productive.

A two-year-old boy does not know that the dangers that's why it is surer that he suffers some accident, that we must bear in mind that sometimes for more care that we put in the sound inevitable.
But we must not infect the fear there is a big difference between being cautious and being fearful, a prudence excess is harmful to the psychological development of the child.

There are two ways for this child to whom fears were transmitted to him, he can be a difficult boy who us tends not to pay attention or otherwise a shy super child who cannot develop for proper account and depends on anybody for everything what he tries to do.

The way of finding an average point and of not passing of an end to other is to pay his attention only when it is necessary this way the child will be differentiating and will learning during his conducts which it is well and which not.

We know that the ends are bad neither the over-protection nor the inattention they are good, if we know that the child this one in an age in which it is still defenseless we try to be positives to be able to stimulate them and that they are exercising control if the same.

The frustrations are a part of the life and they serve so that to learn. The fears are only that fears, let's not leave that they dominate us.


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