Speaking about sex with our children
On August 5, 2009
Our today children for the incidence of the technology are much more active and awake than we in this age. The parents often we neither are prepared nor know how to answer to his demands. We think mistakenly that the sexuality begins with the puberty when the human beings we define our sexual identity between 2 and 4 years of life.
The children rise such questions like: why do the children do standing pee and the girls make it seated? Or from which the children come?
It is necessary to give answers to all his questions. Without vacillating, in his language and without lies. The parents we must tackle the topics with naturalness, it is never necessary to censure the boys for his questions. If they perceive that we trouble they will think that they are doing a little villain and his problems and feelings will conceal us in the future.
It can spend that they risk asking other adults or children who should give him inadequate answers. We must not exhibit our children to major dangers for trusting in other persons. It is necessary that we are attentive to all the declarations and needs of our children.
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Urzula Said,
He writes a CommentI like very much that I spoke about sexual identity with sin, better still that there are faced the parents to touch the topic early with his children. Although the time has happened still there are families that hide or prohibit the topic. I am an educator and it is interesting to me to teach and to face my children and 4-year-old girls, in the knowledge of his body and his sexual identity.